Saturday, May 31, 2025
Beyond the Party: The Value of Saturdays
Sunday, July 21, 2024
Self-Forgiveness: The Pinnacle of Self-Care
By practicing self-forgiveness, we learn to:
- Embrace our humanity and acknowledge that mistakes are an inevitable part of growth
- Treat ourselves with the same kindness and compassion we offer to others
- Let go of the need for perfection and embrace our quirks and flaws
- Cultivate self-awareness and recognize areas for improvement
- Develop a growth mindset and see challenges as opportunities for growth
- Practice self-compassion and speak to ourselves with gentle kindness
- Release the weight of self-criticism and step into the freedom of self-acceptance
Remember, tomorrow is a new day to do things better. Don't be too hard on yourself. Take care of yourself, and start by forgiving yourself. You are worthy of love, kindness, and compassion – from yourself, most of all.
Friday, February 24, 2017
Endurance
Thursday, February 23, 2017
River of World
Wednesday, February 22, 2017
Funtua to Gusau
Tuesday, February 21, 2017
Setting Long Range Business Goals
Consequently, it is imperative for business leaders to understand how to set long term goals; below is a simplified guide in 10 steps.
1. Ask and answer the following questions:
- What does the company intend to achieve in the next 10 years?
- What must the company do to achieve these landmarks?
- Where must the company be positioned, situated or made strategically visible to enable progress?
- What assets - human capital and factors of production, must the company acquire to attain desired next levels?
- How does the company intend to give back to immediate and remote environment as part of Corporate Social Responsibility (CSR)?
2. Attempt to answer each question using numbered bullet points on a separate piece of paper. You may want to engage all the leaders in the company during a strategy meeting in order to harness valuable stakeholder’s inputs for long range goal setting. Ensure there are about 20 to 50 distinct answers for each question.
3. Ascribe realistic timelines in years (1, 2 3, 4 ...) to each of the suggested answers, possibly as superscripts.
4. Reshuffle each list to show balance in goal setting for each year - year 1, 2 , 3 , 4 ... possibly to year 10.
5. Prioritize the listed goals derived from each question - this is a critical step in this task. Recall about 50 answers were collated per question; there would be a need to rank possible options in order of feasibility and priority.
6. Write short reasoning/descriptive essays on each of the top 10 priority items; give reasons for wanting each. If you are unable to muscle good reasons for any item, strike it off the list!
7. Select 4 top priorities from each category to have 20 long range goals or focus areas.
8. Compile these 20 goals in a long term goal journal or company’s 5-year or 10-year plan document as the case maybe.
9. Review the selected goals on weekly basis, feel free to strike out those accomplished or those that are no longer relevant or value adding in line with realistic operational / business environment.
10. Engage your Financial Advisor as part of weekly reviews; ultimately well planned goals should positively impact both the company's corporate existence/image and financial bottom-line.
Thursday, July 14, 2016
Idleness
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| *Idleness and inaction are risky compliments. |
Wednesday, March 9, 2016
Tepe Ferry Point
Wednesday, July 15, 2015
Why do boreholes collapse in Lagos
This is due to
1 Low quantity of cement materials (clay) and inadequate compaction
2 High hydraulic conductivity of the concerned loose layer
3 Vibration of the ground from adjacent vibrating source.
4 Excessive withdrawal from adjacent well.
5 Wrong screening of the pipe and use fake water pump etc
NOTE: This is also applicable to basement complex areas like Ibadan , Ilorin, Akure, Ondo etc
Why do you need geophysical survey before drilling a borehole
Although one can come across water at any depth in a sedimentary environment like Lagos (the reason for so many “successful” shabbily executed shallow holes in Lagos) however there is more to borehole drilling and construction than just locating the depth to water table.
Geophysical exploration helps in locating region of abnormal water potential (high hydraulic conductivities) hence give information about the subsurface region that is prone to possible collapse. It helps to demarcate fresh water and salt water boundary especially in places close to the coastal region of Lagos (Lekki and environ). It particularly differentiates between regional water table (main aquifer) from perched or local water level which are usually polluted and inadequate for prolong use. Etc
SUGGESTED SOLUTIONS
1. Contact, consult and/or contract only experts in the field from project conception to execution.
2. Have a clear and deep understanding of the geology of the area (your site) before developing a site plan or erecting permanent structures (ensure your soak away is not sited on the best and only aquifer with your site or neighbourhood).
3. Carry out detailed geophysical appraisal of the proposed site to reduce future wastages and ensure engineering and architectural best practices.
4. Use well formulated drilling mud during construction of borehole to prevent failure.
5. Insist on having a project report with drillers/well log for convenient and smart borehole maintenance.
6. Beware of quack Doodle buggers or ensure you have a maintenance commitment/agreement if you must use one.
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Eris Akpe
08130942347
Or
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Monday, July 13, 2015
Top 20 Nigerian Internet Discussion Forum
| S/N | Website | Name | Objective | Posts | Threads | Members |
| 1 | www.nairaland.com | Nairaland | General (Local) Discussions | N/A | 2,178,571 | 1,391,823 |
| 2 | www.nigerianbestforum.com | Nigerian Best forum | General (Local) Discussions | 687,837 | 397,970 | 383,495 |
| 3 | www.earlyface.com | Early Face | University Life | N/A | N/A | 112,546 |
| 4 | www.stockmarketnigeria.com/forums/ | Stock Market Nigeria | Investment Forum | 248,703 | 1,732 | 70,835 |
| 5 | www.Nigerianadultforum | Nigerian Adult Forum | Explicit/Adult content | 262,214 | 15,052 | 41,779 |
| 6 | www.nigerianelitesforum.com | Nigerian Elites Forum | Politics | 74,094 | 63,557 | 15,105 |
| 7 | www.NaijaElite.com | Naija Elite | Career information | 5067 | 4,231 | 2,510 |
| 8 | www.naijafinder.com | Naija Finder | News, Trade and Business Exchange | N/A | N/A | 2,104 |
| 9 | www.leapfame.com | Leap Fame | General (Local) Discussions | N/A | 2,298 | 1,670 |
| 10 | www.naijastories.com | Naija Stories | Story writing and publishing | 159,214 | 12,617 | N/A |
| 11 | http://www.naijatowns.com/ www.http://naijasky.com/ | Naija Sky | Local Community based discussions | N/A | N/A | N/A |
| 12 | www.naijapals.com www.gistmania.com | Gistmania | Dating and Relationship | N/A | N/A | N/A |
| 13 | www.aaupad.com | AAU Pad | Social and trade networking | N/A | N/A | N/A |
| 14 | oganews.com | Oga News | News Aggregator and Blog | N/A | N/A | N/A |
| 15 | www.kudizone.com | Kudi Zone | Inspiration and Business Leadership | N/A | N/A | N/A |
| 16 | www.infodailies.com | Info Dailies | News Blog | N/A | N/A | N/A |
| 17 | http://forumcitizens.com | Forum Citizens | Entertainment News Blog | N/A | N/A | N/A |
| 18 | www.NigeriaGalleria.com | Nigeria Galleria | Business Directory | N/A | N/A | N/A |
| 19 | Bellanaija.com | Bella Naija | Entertainment/News Blog | N/A | N/A | N/A |
| 20 | Lindaikejiblog.com | Linda Ikeji | Entertainment/News Blog | N/A | N/A | N/A |
Saturday, October 12, 2013
From Pinging to Communicating
I like to write and chat, using the powers of letter writing, internet and other communication tools, I have been able to transform these hobbies into advantageous skills over the years. As a field technical sales officer, I briefed my clients and prospective business partners through chat engines, closed deals before hitting the streets for mere hardware configurations - no talking is required. As an equity research and investment banker, I used chat windows as medium for offering investment advisory services to"total strangers", closed more deals than conventional sales team did. The power of "chats" or "pings" as we now know it with the advent of personal mobile devices/computers (like blackberry, androids, tablets) seem very effective until the clients insist on having the salesman pick up the cheques in person.
Then comes the challenge "pinging" poses ... a smart, articulate and persuasive writer is not necessarily and articulate speech maker or competent communicator. Prolonged and intense oral inactivity, often associated with chat addicts, comes with some strong disadvantages - notable is poor diction. Despite all my good exploits behind the chat engines, like a man behind a mask, I always found physically meetings and oral discussions very challenging. There became an urgent need to move away from Pinging to Communicating as more clients insist on meeting the "boss".
The need to be look at my clients in the eye, marshal my intelligent presentations with the right diction, pronunciation and gesticulation; the need to put some real emotions and voice musicality behind the stimulating calculations and technical presentations I once preferred to ping at clients ... these were a few of the challenges I had to resolve. I found them very daunting until I stumbled on Garden City Toastmasters Club. Subsequently, with every meeting, I have practice and learn how to relate very well beyond chats and pings, thus progressing towards achieving competency in real communication - moving from Pinging to Communication.
Monday, June 10, 2013
Psychology in Action
Saturday, July 21, 2012
Penny Stock Investment
Benefit of Penny Stock investment includes relatively cheaper acquisition cost, opportunity to buy large volumes of stocks and investment in a stock with upside growth potential. It is a very good investment strategy for youthful/beginner/small scale investors; however Penny Stock investors must base their stock picks on sound judgment/fundamental analysis (which is often times scarce as most research firms do not cover penny stocks in their analysis) in a bit to mitigate against inherent risks.
A major demerit of penny stock investment is the effect of inflation on invested capital as a spike in inflationary trend may adversely impact the invested capital if there is no commensurate appreciation in stock price and/or dividend yield.
Sunday, November 6, 2011
Lessons for "My Pikin" Manufacturers
Would it not be reasonable and fair to ensure that the manufacturer of "My Pikin" deadly teething mixture is made to pay for damages resulting from adulterated batch. Taking a cue from China!
Saturday, July 3, 2010
Return of Naira Merchants
However, in the depth of my thoughts, one distraction caught my fancy. As much as I tried, I could not resist writing about it. The naira merchants are back at work. Until now, one had thought the Charles Soludo administration as Central Bank of Nigeria’s governor had tactically eradicated the bad idea of selling mint naira notes on the streets by changing all easily tattered low naira denominations to polymer notes and making them widely available to the citizenry through the banks among other strict regulatory and policy measures.
The contrary now seem the case as the polymer notes are now up for sale – attracting higher premium than old mint paper notes. After all, we were told polymer notes are more expensive to produce and designed to last longer. Seated comfortably at the garage were two middle aged women with big bags stuffed with new polymer notes. Obviously and strangely so, there are displayed for sale. I helplessly watched as co-travellers buy some to be “sprayed” in parties.
Ten minutes later, the writer in me overcame the patriotic me. I ordered for one thousand naira worth of twenty naira notes. In a jiffy, I had my order but at a cost. The naira merchants demanded for two hundred naira (twenty percent) premium on one thousand naira transaction! It used to be one hundred naira premium per thousand. This “Öwambe craze” is costly – but I have no choice but to console myself.
My granny likes new notes; she would have these as gift to offer to others. Sadly, she need not know handsomely I’ve paid to disobey the law – a career writer would have returned the notes (feigning unsatisfactory bargain). For me, that idea crossed my mind much later as I galloped up and down on Gbenga Daniel Boulevard far away in Ogun State.
Tuesday, February 10, 2009
Who Should Pay For Dinner Dates?
There is this debate that we all like to avoid, but it stares us in the eye at almost every outing – especially if one is (un)lucky enough to be dating a richer partner. The question “Who should pay for dinner dates?’ is a familiar evil that has broken several relationships and threatens many marriages. How do we view it as individuals, couples or groups?
In my opinion, the man should pay for dinner dates, not as a rule but as a sign of living up to ones responsibility in the context of cultural and sociological perspectives of human living in this part of the world. The African man has a measure of pride attached to making his lady comfortable, toiling for her, making her happy, protecting her and doing all sorts that increases her level of comfort from building of traditional huts for her in time past to opening the car door for the lady in modern times.
Moreover, it is almost generally accepted worldwide (except in the West where honour has been thrown to the dust bins!) that wooing the opposite sex is the man's responsibilities and dinner dates are preludes to an established relationship and necessary impetus to sustain the excitement in any existing relationship. The man should seize the opportunity of a dinner date to appreciate his partner or girl friend, he should endeavour within the limits of his purse, to thrill his partner at every dinner date. He should allow the lady to pick her choice on the eatery menu. If they have already established good rapport he could let her know the limits of his purse such that the cost of such dinner dates does not unnecessarily affect other bills.
However, the act of buying so much for a lady at any dinner date at the expense of ones budget for other issues and items like family upkeep, school fees, telephone bills and others is not ideal. It is a measure of financial immaturity and a display of misplaced priority. Moreover, some men are fond of buying stuffs they haven’t tasted in a life time and cannot afford to take at dinner dates just to impress a newly found love (she eats while the mope at her, trying to curtail their displeasure at not being able to afford the delight in duplicates); this is mere deceit.
It is also not always compulsory that a dinner that should cost a fortune especially in the light of weak national economy. With mutual understanding among couples, a dinner date could often times be as cheap as convenient for the financial standard of both the man and the lady, without necessarily diminishing the quality of the fun achievable. This essential state of understanding, which is very compulsory for partners who have envisaged, marrying one another, could put to rest the argument as to whether it is a man or a woman that is to pay for any dinner date.
Another important factor, especially for already married couples, is the allocation of social responsibilities based on mutual understanding or marriage contract. Often, it is the responsibility of the man to stock the house with foodstuffs while the lady does the cooking; however in rare case the lady might have accepted to cater for the kitchen independently while the man’s pay packet is used for capital projects like building houses. In such homes, it is common to see the lady paying for dinner dates – often she suggests it especially if she is not prepared to do kitchen chores at that moment.
Finally, there is no crime in a lady paying for dinner dates. It is however criminal for a man to expect a lady to pay for dinner dates. Although, from experience, one must have observed that most disciplined ladies do not allow a man to pay their bills on the first date. Rarely, a lady may also decide to threat his man to a dinner date, men do not need to feel too pompous to accept this offer, just reciprocate it in hundred folds shortly afterwards!
Friday, January 23, 2009
Maza Maza
Wednesday, October 24, 2007
Ideas Rule the World

An idea is a concept or abstraction formed and existing in the mind. Human capability to contemplate ideas is associated with the ability of reasoning, self-reflection, and the ability to acquire and apply intellect. Further, ideas give rise to actual concepts, or mind generalizations, which are the basis for any kind of knowledge whether science or philosophy. From the above understanding of what ideas entail, it is obvious that every fabric of the group, family, societal, national, regional and global interactions commenced first from the concepts of ideas and ends around such. The entirely world is governed by ideas originating from the best of intellectuals who best use multidisciplinary approach in resolving complex issues that daily affect our co-existence on earth. Reasoning and self reflection are the strongest elements of invention and by extension civilization cum globalization. Starting from the early stages of civilization when the Platos, Aristotles, Galileos among others formulated hypothesis, principles and theories to the present day of high power policy framework, charters, conventions and protocols; man has only learnt to build on the early man’s lay models using newly available technologies and media courtesy “ideas”. From “scavenger” agriculture to mechanization and genetic modifications; from scouting oasis in the deserts to making oasis of deserts, from “telescope astrology” to International Space Station; from pockets of clans to a structured world governance system (United Nations); man has employed ideas across several disciplines to govern the world. Ideas have been used to unite, produce, co-ordinate and articulate several programmes for development of humanity so much so that the world is no longer seen as a geographical landmass but a global village where every barrier to human and material interaction are being strategically controlled through emerging knowledge and application of intellect. Truly, ideas rule the world.
Tuesday, September 4, 2007
STOCKFISH: Simple trading rules.
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Fish can turn to meat with patience and processing depending on the stock!
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STOCKFISH
The patient woman’s fish
Buy … hold… then sell as meat.
Don’t mind those scary jargons:
Verification, suspension precipitate IPO
Dematerialization, mandate or PO
They all mean “food processing”
Better still “stockbroker’s headache”.
Buy low … sell high …
That’s alone would break you even.
Always remember
Every kobo counts every casual second
In stockfish business!





